Sean,
Hi, I'm new also, and I was born and raised a RC, and was one for well over 50 years. I am non practicing now, I can say I don't know anymore. Its very difficult I know, I became home bound due to illness and joined a RC message forum and after two years I said this is not what I believe, and so then I went to regular Christian forums and well I no longer believe in the virgin birth or trinity, or a God that destroys, I now believe the killing in the Bible was man, and man saying it was God.
I feel it was wrote by man and their views of God and is full of stories, myths and fables.
My whole family is Rc and I have no one to talk to so I'm here. I think this is a good place as we can believe but not believe all the stuff, like transubstantiation and all the Marian dogmas. I believe in God, and we all worship him differently, and I do believe in an afterlife. All ancients people believed in a God or Gods.
I have been able to tell no one how I feel, and its been a very difficult few years for me, its been hard realizing all this stuff and I just thought everything the RCC taught was truth. So your not alone, I understand.