Thank you for the welcome. But...
I do not agree that it does not matter whether or not they occured. It bothers me that a significant portion of the population believes that natural laws can be preempted to give them favor. That strikes me as a dangerous way of thinking and being. I'm not saying that life should be a quest to accurately know every single little fact throughout history all over the world. I am claiming that deliberately shielding anything from the light of reason will hamper spiritual growth. Just to be clear and careful, I am not saying that the light of reason is the brightest light; only that a person hiding from the light of reason is nowhere near ready for the light of God. I also think that the only way for a person to believe any of the miracles of the Bible is to refuse to be reasonable, to refuse to grow up. Also, these specific irrational beliefs are not the only way to be unreasonable. Please do not infer that I think that not believing them automatically makes a person reasonable.
Cunninglily, I see what you're saying about soul events and physical events being on a continuum. An illumination of the soul of John Doe will be accompanied by a change in the physical matter that he is made of. His speech will be different, so his voice will vibrate the air differently. His facial expressions will be different. People will see and hear him differently, they might react to him differently. Grudges may disappear "miraculously"; relationship wounds may be "healed." OTOH, grudges may emerge out of nowhere; relationships could be rendered null. As all this occurs all the atoms and molecules dance along accordingly. What you don't see are people coming back from the dead, you don't see gravity defied. The natural laws of physics and biology are not violated, but something very profound, sacred, and creative occurs that works within the bounds rather than crassly (and futilely) trying to break them.
Cynthia, I understand that things are different today from how they were thousands of years ago. I don't have a problem with the authors of the Bible or the Bible itself. The Bible isn't going anywhere, nor would I wish it to. My problem is only with Christians today who in spite of all that we've learned in the past 2,000 years, still insist that everything happened just like the Bible says. Today we have methods of proof not available to Biblical times, so the nice (I would say lazy) thing to say is, "Well, we just can't know." Oh come on. Let's go on a little imagination ride. Suppose 300 years from now Professor Frink invents a device that can accurately reconstruct a visual image of the past as far back as we like. A great assembly is called for the unveiling of the device. The first demonstration will be to verify or debunk the parting of the Red Sea. On one side of the assembly are the believers in the parting (yes, they'll still be around in 300 years) and on the other side are the hellbound skeptics. Now to the central question of this story: just before the experiment is carried out, which side is going to be more nervous?
Well I hope that made some sense and wasn't too heavy handed.
Jay