Overcast, thanks for starting the thread. I was baptized and raised in the "high" Episcopal Church. I'm getting dangerously close to 60, and over the years I've been to so many different churches, even once to an "Evangelical Catholic" church where they sang in tongues. I've joined a few churches, stayed for varying periods of time, only to ultimately decide I was being hypocritical so I would leave. The hypocrisy was that I really didn't believe any of it, but I was drawn to the sense of community, peace, friendships and outreach in the ones I joined. I've had a difficult few years, have struggled with my own anxieties and depression, have been caretaking a sister with schizophrenia, become a single parent with 3 teenagers, and the list goes on. So, I've been looking again for that sense of "community" and think I may have found it at a church I discovered on this website. In fact, the first day I attended, Bishop John Spong was the guest preacher. As long as I don't hear "the Lord Jesus is the one and only way toward eternal life and salvation...", yada yada, I should be ok. Although I have to say the head reverend seems maybe a little too slick and there was a brand new Infiniti parked in his very own personalized parking spot, so I've made no commitments yet. I keep telling myself that first impressions are just that, both good and bad. Also, anything that even remotely smacks of "cult" sends me running. I tried a church once where the pastors were a husband/wife team. Nope, couldn't deal with that either.