I know what you mean. I had an ex who was a fundie and saw everything in black and white. Sometimes I envy him that he can do that because the reason he can do that is because he has never really encountered any real hardship in life or any period of uncertainty where he just had to slog on like the rest of us do. But then again, I am glad that I am not that way because, if anything *does* happen to him and he ever *does* have his faith tested, he won't be able to handle it. I have had my faith tested almost to the point of walking away and now I feel that my faith and trust is stronger as a result.
So maybe it is better that we are able to see the shades of grey, because *life* is grey. There are so few things in black and white that we learn to greater appreciate them when we do find them.
And I like the avatars you sent me:)